I'm trying to stay active and busy to try to not think about my breakup,but I can't help it. A piece of me is gone and I really miss him. I try telling myself that each day will get better but it's a VERY slow process. I'm hurt!! I lost my best friend and lover!!
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My Heart Literally Hurts
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Posted 1 year ago #
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Hi riosg79. I feel your pain. Am currently going thru it. Do you have kids with your ex? I have 2. During the pregnancy and following the birth of our youngest, my only daughter (now 1 year old), he transformed into this premature mid-life crisis individual (only 32).
I don't want to say having kids "complicates" things, but at times it sure brings distractions, yet again, also brings reminders--and with those there is no choice but to handle it.
We were together 12 years, and all of a sudden, overnight, I became this ball-and-chain wife that lived on seeing him in misery. ...? If i had any say, we would work things out, but he's too situated in his new single life with single friends, bars, etc...
Keep telling yourself, because you are right. Each day will get better. Put together a list of things you want or need to do for You so that each time you find yourself in that zone, you can refer to one of the items on your list as a distraction. This will better/improve yourself as well as take your mind off of it. A win-win i must say.
What i truly hate right now is that it's always easier to suggest than to live it. Mebbe you'll respond to a future distraught post from me.
Take Care. Take each day as it comes.
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