One of the first steps to take when you decide to get a divorce is to retain a good divorce lawyer. He/she must be someone who can stand up for your rights in court and get the best settlement possible. You might want someone with a bedside manner or you might want a legal whiz. In any case, it must be someone you can trust. Follow these tips when choosing a good divorce lawyer:
- Make certain the attorney specializes in family law. Do not use the same attorney as your husband as that would be a conflict of interest, and you would not be best represented.
- Seek referrals through friends and family, your state bar association or online. There are many directories online that help you seek attorneys.
Set up appointments to interview those you have found. Determine if you feel comfortable with him/her and whether he/she will do the job. Ask the following questions:
- How many years of experience do you have?
- How many clients do you represent? Ask for references.
- Are you a member of American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers?
- How much time will my divorce take? Ask about the general steps he/she will take on your behalf. This will give you an approximation.
- How can I reach you? Discuss whether he/she will return phone calls, the best time to call, how many appointments will be necessary, if he/she is available in an emergency. You want to determine how accessible this attorney will be in terms of meeting your needs.
- How much will it cost? Ask how he/she bills including all filing fees, hourly charges, and retainers.
- Will you or an associate be handling my case? If you are interviewing a high power attorney, and your divorce is uncomplicated, he/she may utilize a paralegal. In this case, you can save money because their hourly fees are lower.
- What do you think the best route is—settlement or litigation? If he/she is a good negotiator, you may be able to settle out of court which would lower the cost of the divorce.
- Do you use a retainer? Most attorneys have you sign retainer agreements which stipulate their hourly fee and what they intend to do on your behalf. It is like a contract between you and him/her. Read it carefully, and keep a copy.